Sorry to Ruin Your Fond Memories, But Friends Was Homophobic AF

Friends is one of the most important sitcoms to ever grace television, and it happens to be my all-time favorite show. When I watched Friends in high school, I enjoyed it at face value: six 20-somethings navigating friendship, relationships, and careers in New York City. Fast-forward to now: I’m 22 and watch Friends with a much more critical eye. Its lack of racial diversity is startling. Even more shocking, however, is the subtle homophobia that’s rampant in every season. As a gay man who loves Friends—like, can-quote-every-line loves—this is very disappointing.

It isn’t intentional, but Friends treats LGBTQIA people and topics quite offensively. Whether it’s a subtle “gay joke” or bizarre expectations about masculinity, Friends’ idea of what “makes a man” is narrow AF. And that’s problematic.

I still enjoy the show for its humor, wit, and irresistible cast, but unfortunately, I can’t un-see the homophobia. And after checking out these 10 examples—one per season—neither will you. READ MORE.